Some individuals I come across have figured it out and move forward without turning back. They took a chance somewhere and it was the right decision. Some on the other hand are stuck in a rut. I call it a rut because it a place in which you can’t pull yourself out of. There is no ladder or anything to climb up to come out. They lose hope and vision and just many times give up. I like to say some end up in a hamster wheel. They are moving but going nowhere. No movement of change or progress of spirit.
Life is confusing and it can be terrifying when you have such a fear to make a wrong move that you never make the move. But if the right mentor comes along to steer you in the right direction, your life will be put back on track.
I always say you can’t allow yourself to be stuck in the same place you were in last year, or even 6 months ago.
The worst thing that can happen when you get stuck is to begin to fear the next step in life. We get comfortable where we are and we are fearful of change.
The fear of failure is what grips most. It is the fear of the unknown and if we mess up it is all over! That is what some say. I can assure you, it is never over. You just keep moving forward. You learn from the mistakes and pick yourself up and keep running after the prize. There is only one person that can tell you that you are defeated and that is yourself. I think that really we have to take a leap of faith and believe that all things work out for the good. It is all about getting that feedback from mentors and knowing what your heart wants.
oors are open in front of you whether big or small. Never give up on your dreams. Keep moving forward where ever you are at this point in life. Situations will change for you and you will begin to see a little light on your life. Sooner rather than later it starts to fall in place and you have successfully pulled yourself out of the rut.
Now, take a chance and know that it will start you moving in a direction which could and should open another door or another path will open up for you. You can do it!